Kitty wrote:
I'm just trying to really grasp this. I feel like he has a secret agenda of making me fat though he says he never would.
I'm just trying to really grasp this. I feel like he has a secret agenda of making me fat though he says he never would.
Only your boyfriend knows if he has a secret agenda.
But I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. It's quite possible to fantasize about this stuff without ever doing it.
And even though we like this stuff, most of us oppose pressuring, manipulating, or tricking someone into gaining against their will.
13 years